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freedom
Kebebasan adalah hak asasi manusia
Negara bebas dari penjajah itu merdeka
Budak bebas dari kekerasan itu merdeka
Mendapatkan pendidikan secara gratis itu merdeka
Mendapatkan perlindungan secara hukum itu merdeka
Memilih agama itu merdeka
Mengeluarkan pendapat itu merdeka
Bebas berinovasi itu merdeka
Berada di zona nyaman itu merdeka
Jatuh cinta dalam relasi 2 arah itu merdeka
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Kata orang, pacaran itu status.
Padahal kejujuran isi hati yang mendefinisikan status
Karena hakikat cinta tak butuh tali
Cinta itu memilih dan memberi
Dia datang atas panggilan hati
Ia membebaskan dan sangat membahagiakan
Jadi untuk apa melawan arusnya dan malah saling menjajah?
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Setiap orang punya objek kemerdekaan yang berbeda.
Objek: pekerjaan, hobi, kebiasaan, perilaku, manusia, angan, ilmu, dll.
Objek kemerdekaan seumpama surga dunia.
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Kemerdekaan. Itu saja kuncinya.

Adzan

For all kind of voices, songs, anything that I’ve ever heard… the most thirilling my soul is to hear adzan, Eid Takbir, or someone who is doing ngaji. I always remember the figure of alm. Mbah Bu (my grandma from my mother’s family) when I hear Eid Takbir at night before i will go to bed. Sometimes, I feel free and just as a small of things (like a dust) when i hear a call to prayer (adzan) and I’m seeing natural panorama of physical space on broader perspective, allahu akbar!

Said all I want from you is to see you tomorrow
And every tomorrow, maybe you’ll let me borrow your heart
And is it too much to ask for every Sunday
And while we’re at it, throw in every other day to start
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I know people make promises all the time
Then they turn right around and break them
When someone cuts your heart open with a knife, now you’re bleeding
But I could be that guy to heal it over time
And I won’t stop until you believe it
‘Cause baby you’re worth it
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So don’t act like it’s a bad thing to fall in love with me
‘Cause you might look around and find your dreams come true, with me
Spent all your time and your money just to find out that my love was free
So don’t act like it’s a bad thing to fall in love with me, me
It’s not a bad thing to fall in love with me, me
Not such a bad thing to fall in love with me
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Now how about I’d be the last voice you hear tonight?
And every other night for the rest of the nights that there are
Every morning I just wanna see you staring back at me
‘Cause I know that’s a good place to start
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No I won’t fill your mind
With broken promises and wasted time
And if you fall, you’ll always land right in these arms
These arms of mine
now, I'm trying to play and sing this song with my ukulele. I think, It's quite difficult. Semangaaat! I won't give up. :)

Happiness

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Tak ingin dikasihani
Tak ingin berkepanjangan dalam kegalauan
Orang datang dan pergi
Pergi ke dunia lain
Pergi ke tantangan kerja baru
Pergi ke tempat tinggal baru
Pergi ke lain hati
Pergi mengejar cita-cita
Pergi mengejar mimpi
Tetapi belajar dari pengalaman hidup yang tidak akan pernah pergi
Waktu menentukan kualitas hubungan antar manusia itu sendiri
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Buka mata, telingan, hati, dan pikiran
Banyak hal yang sebenarnya bisa membuat bahagia
Betapa banyak nikmat Tuhan tak terkira
Betapa banyak canda-tawa & senyuman bertebaran
Betapa banyak manusia hidup dalam kesederhanaan terbukti lebih bahagia
Bertahan hidup itu susah, tetapi kenapa kadang manusia membuat segala sesuatunya lebih susah ya?
Apakah semua ini karena ego, gengsi, kesombongan, atau keserakahan?
Entahlah…
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Yang aku tau, aku selalu kecewa ketika menggantungkan kebahagiaanku kepada yang lain.
Jadi aku hanya ingin menggantungkan kebahagiaanku kepada Tuhanku dan diri sendiri.
Tuhanku mengajarkan: jika memberi cinta & kasih dengan ikhlas, maka aku bahagia.
Itu saja pedomannya.
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I learned that If I’m happy, let others be happy, too. Just living like this will be enough, everyone knows it, too. I’m not someone who can give others happiness. So, I hope to lead a happy life myself, first. We need to be happy, before we can make others people happy. No matter what path everyone of you chooses in the future. Hope that path would lead to happiness as well. So, Lets live on happily!

Together

mom&dad

Life Partner

e0b78abd5354b01d7c5d068ec0df7939A woman 2nd marriage, 40-things years old, have 2 children, COO Facebook and then she said that: 

When looking for a life partner, the best advice is to make good relationship to all of your friends first, took many experience in with that you’ve had before: the bad boys, the cool boys, the commitment boys, the crazy boys, the good boys, the nice boys. But don’t marry them! The things that make the bad boys sexy do not make them good husbands. Let they to be who they really are. When it comes time to settle down, find someone who wants equal partner. Someone who thinks women/men should be smart, opinionated, and ambitions. Someone who values fairness, respects, & expects, or even better, really wants to do his/her share in home where the heart is. This person is exist and trust it, over time, nothing is sexier.

So, let me be the one who will geek my partner out! :)) Best relationship talk like bestfriend, play like children, argue like husband and wife, protect each other like brother and sister (note to my self).